Previously I didn’t even want sex, because it just hurt that much. It was really rubbish. Technically the sex was “fine” at best. We could play for as long as we wanted to until I orgasmed. Then it became too painful, really painful.

Since doing Emily’s programme all of that has changed. Now we’re mostly on the same page, our libidos are much more closely matched. We’ve been able to connect on another level.

We’re even finally on the same page about having children. There’s an added depth that we didn’t have before. And a deep level of trust. Sex now is actually fun and I can now have multiple orgasms for the first time in 15 years! It’s opened up so much for our entire relationship.